Balance of giving and getting

Remembering old "prepaid-thought", brought another self-evident insight back to mind. It's interesting how sensitive some of us are and some of us are not to the balance of giving and getting.
For those who are sensitive to this balance, their giving starts without any kind of obligation to get back.  But if they sense that they are not getting back equally, in the long run, trust is gone forever.

For those who are not sensitive to this balance getting is just a natural to take if somebody gives.

I am surrounded with givers (=I have surrounded myself, we have chosen each others) which is very nice. Comfy. But it's also too easy - barely ever I  have to fight to get back. It it shows.



Givers and takers rarely make up a long lasting team to go to a pub :)